Friday, November 13, 2009

lil update ....


Hello everyone, still working on getting hubby all better and trying to find some answers yet. Monday I am going to check into a couple more doctors for some second opinions. Not happy with all that is going on at the moment so that is the next step.He is doing just a little bit better, up moving around some and eating just a bit more. I do not agree with some of what his main doctor has diagnosed and wants to do at this point . I don't think some of the other doctors agree with it either just from several comments made . So that tells me it is time to bring another doctor in rather then just go with what one of them says and hope for the best . So far they have not found any cancer which is very good news .A small nodule was found on his lung last week and a couple cysts on his kidneys which they don't seem concerned about the ones on the kidney was told that is normal hmmmm???? The one on the lung will be looked at again in a couple weeks by the cancer specialist just to see if it could be anything of concern or not. A bone marrow biopsy most likely will be done then and more blood work to recheck things . So basically we are not sure at this point if the flu and strep throat just recked havoc on his system ,if he really does have sweets syndrome as we were told or if underlying issues . I myself think it is more so the flu and strep with lots of meds on top of it causing yet more issues .But just don't know at this point so yep more waiting ,doctors and tests and in the mean time just saying prayers it will continue to get better each day and that will just awnser our questions if nothing else .

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But doing ok , have had some frustration with some of hubbies family but oh well nothing new there gotta love family and there opinions sometimes . if they only understood the added stress it brings rather then helping . I hate when people avoid you have not much to do with you for the most part then feel they can tell you what to do when something like this happens . The same people that didn't have even 5 minutes to come to the hospital the 7 days he was there .And a mother that can't even call her son I just can't wrap my head around it , but hey they sure can comment to others on how I am doing things Ughhhh!!!!oh well anyhooo ....
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I am going to try to finish up a little creation I am working on right now .Hope to get it on eBay by next week .also have a couple lil dolls I just need to get dressed and they will be listed soon as I get those finished up .So for those that have been wondering :) I am working hard to get some things listed for the upcoming holidays. Just love how working with that paint and fabric takes me into my own lil world when needed at times lol :)
So that is just a very lil update on things around here .I thank all of you for your prayers , kind words , and emails bless your hearts my dear sweet friends . I hope you all have a wonderful week-end .
Hugs
Renae

4 comments:

~Tonya said...

Dear Renae,

My thoughts are with you. I hope a second opinon helps out, sometimes it can be so very frustration. All of it. Family, doctors, stress and then we create.

Yes, it does help to take us into our own little world, only if for a while.

I pray things get better and don't ya just love the people that "aren't there" when they should be and then they think they can add their 2 cents in.

Thank you for the update, I often wonder how you and hubby are doing.

Take Care and have a nice weekend.
Hugs,
~Tonya

Dragonfly Treasure said...

Gosh, waas hoping on some improvement for him. My thoughts and prayers have been with you both.

Hoping you can get a second opinion soon, and some answers.

Crafting is a good therapy, you need a release. break form the stress. I often wonder where I would be if not for my garden during my hubbys disabling accident.

Remember to take care of you...mentally and physically. You can't care for him if your not well.

Family can be sooo trying at times. Been there too.

Praying for some answers.
*hugs*deb

The Vintage Vignette said...

Renae, I am so glad your honey is beginning to feel a bit better. It can be so scary. My hubby had a cancer scare a few years back so I know just how it can make you crazy not knowing. Keep your spirits up, keep crafting and coping and if need be remind your in-laws to respect your decisions as husband and wife. :)

Wolfie said...

Hey hon... just found your blog.

Sorry you are dealing with so much right now. I know some of what you are dealing with.

My hubby was diagnosed with kidney cysts (and yes, they say the fluid ones ARE normal... just not the solid ones and he has both).... and bladder cancer. And a lot of other things in the past 6 months. But enough of that.

I have missed ya!! I'm glad I have found your blog and will keep up with you again.

Adri'auna still has the gown you sent her years ago... remember it? She wore it many times... even to Disney to meet the Princesses one year. lol

Anyway.... take care of yourself!!

WOLFIE