Hello everyone, I just wanted to let you all know I will be away a bit longer ,Sorry I have not updated for a lil while . My grams had a large left sided stroke on the 10th which also showed several small ones had occured explaining what has been going on since July .She has blood bursts going on as well ,blood clots that travel to the brain and burst coming most likely from her heart . The stroke left her with damage to her right arm ,hand and throat which she is unable to swallow now and a very hard choice had to be made of a feeding tube put in or to let nature just do it's thing and we did not feel the feeding tube was a good idea it would just prolong her pain and the doctor agreed as have many others . A very hard thing to watch and have to do .We are on the 13th day and I know it will be soon the signs are there hospice is coming in to the retirement home once a day as well as the pastor and I am there most of the time to be with her and dealing with lots of idiots on there staff making things so much harder yet ...The things they do is beyond my understanding as well as hospice they themself cannot understand the stupidity other then it all being about $. I Have so much more going on but need to get ready to go as soon as hubby gets back from taking the kiddo's to school he is taking me over to grams doesn't want me driving bless his heart . Just wanted to let you all know why I have been away and will be for a lil while longer . Have a good week-end .(((HUGS))) Renae
